GOING ON A SINGLES CRUISE IN MY LATE 20’S

Yep, I did it! I went on a singles cruise at a young age of 25, (then again at 26, and most recently 27). Most people would think I'm totally crazy for doing something like this but I say screw them! I had a blast and made some amazing friends while at it.

As you know I've always been a solo traveler, and you also probably know my dating history hasn't been all that great since starting my digital nomad lifestyle. What you probably don't know is that a lot of my friends are actually 15-25 (sometimes even more) years older than me. I've always hung out with an older crowd, and when I started traveling, I automatically connected more with people that were older than me than people my own age.

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My first singles cruise experience

It was 2015 when I was looking for something to do for New Years that particular year. I've always been a fan of spending New Years somewhere warm and exotic (because Chicago winters, well they suck). And the previous 5 New Years I've spent somewhere on an island. This year my friends weren't able to come with me, so I decided to turn to my good friend Google and looked up phrases like best places to go for NYE for solo female travelers or different things to do for New Years. I've traveled solo many times before this, but this would have been the first time spending a new years solo (or with new friends haha).

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It was 2015 when I was looking for something to do for New Years that particular year. I've always been a fan of spending New Years somewhere warm and exotic (because Chicago winters, well they suck). And the previous 5 New Years I've spent somewhere on an island. This year my friends weren't able to come with me, so I decided to turn to my good friend Google and looked up phrases like best places to go for NYE for solo female travelers or different things to do for New Years. I've traveled solo many times before this, but this would have been the first time spending a new years solo (or with new friends haha).

After doing some intense searching I came across SinglesCruise.com. I've never done a cruise before so I was automatically intrigued by this idea, it nicely fit my different things to do category, and I would ring in the New Year doing something new. Then I looked up the different cruises that they had to offer, and sure enough, they have a New Years cruise leaving out of Orlando. I sat on the idea of booking the cruise for a while but finally decided to pull the trigger. Done! Booked!

Crap, what did I get myself into?

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What to expect from a singles cruise

I literally had no idea what to expect from this cruise. Not only have I never been on a cruise before, I have no idea what to expect from a Singles Cruise. When you think of a singles cruise your mind probably goes to oh it's just a bunch of 60-year-olds going on a cruise to hook up. Tell you the truth that's what I thought too.

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After I registered for the cruise I received a bunch of emails from the company explaining to me the next steps. I signed up for a username on their internal page and browsed around a bit at the people that were going on the cruise. Then I received another email to join the Facebook page. They have two separate Facebook pages; one was for the main group and a separate page for people going specifically on the New Years Cruise (each cruise they do has it's own separate Facebook page). Once I was part of the group I browsed around a bit reading the different comments people are posting. What I noticed right away was that everyone was willing to help out, with anything. Have a question? An experienced cruiser will answer. Don't know what excursion to do? Post online and try to get someone else to do it with you. It was a lot of nice back and forth that I loved from such a tight group.

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The actual cruise

It's now time for the actual cruise. I got to Orlando and stayed with a friend of mine prior to the cruise, I arrived there late at night and wasn't able to make the pre-cruise party that everyone goes to. So I arrived at the ship, hopped on board, and went straight to the singles cruise registration. I was given a paper with all of the group activities on it, including cocktail parties, excursions, dinners, and more, as well as beads that said my name on them. (I thought the beads were totally tacky at first, but the more of these I've done, it makes a lot of sense to wear them. There are just way too many people on these things, this is an easy way to know who is part of the group, and an easy way to get to know everyone's names.) The singles group had about 250 people on this particular cruise, the Halloween cruises get up to 500 singles, and some of the smaller ones as small as 50.

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After checking in I went to the first cocktail party that started shortly after we've set sail. I felt like I was back in high school again introducing myself to everyone for the first time and trying to find my clique. I usually don't have a problem talking to people so this wasn't difficult for me. What did seem a bit intimidating is that some of these people have been doing these single cruises for 20 years. And if it's anything like high school, the cliques might be real.

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After some mingling, I met some wonderful people that I got along well with very well. Everyone was extremely nice, super helpful and everyone was just there to have a great time. They were are all on vacation just looking for a good time.

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Halfway point check-in

I still feel great about this cruise, I've met some incredible people and made some incredible memories. New Years has already passed and we still have a few more days to party. By now I've started to notice some of the drama that goes on in the group, as you can imagine. But I'm not a person that gets involved in drama so I stayed away from that. The stereotype of the cruise being a bunch of 60-year-olds trying to hook up is broken, it's so much more than that. These people are slowly becoming family.

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